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A successful self-realized person or a victim of credit bondage

success or credit victim What is real success? Success goes far much deeper than the material possession and the amount of money you have.It is majorly determined by the measure of the inner peace and mental control that keeps you happy no matter the events that happen in your everyday life.

Have you ever felt like your existence on this world is worthless? Well,you are not alone.Many people go through these feelings of self unworthiness.a kind of feeling that hurts your self esteem and you may end up being dormant in life due to fear of making mistakes.Remember,most of the very attractive achievements today were achieved through a series of  mistakes before finally succeeding.

A self realized   person is one who understands himself better,understands what makes him happy  and knows the unique treasures hidden within him and therefore brings them out so perfectly and this makes life better.True self realization is basically based on understanding that our true identity is far fetched and not about our physical body.

Self realization is not about losing your identity but rather losing all the limiting unreal identities.You lose all the pretences and discover the real you and therefore become free.You experience a kind of freedom that many people are not aware of and you continue enjoying more of this as you continue practising self actualization process.

What do you need to achieve self realization?

Only impress yourself

The greatest reason for self –pity is this chocking urge of trying to impress and compare ourselves with others.It’s known that when you impress or compare yourself with others,you are not living your life but their life and this makes you uncontented and restless about the true you.Remember true happiness comes from feeling contented with your life and achievements but not pleasing other people.

Drop your worries

Worrying is the worst thing that acts like a catalyst towards killing the little hope left in you. A huge monster whose work is to always pin you down and ensure you have the dullest life ever.Worrying will never change anything but having in mind that everything happens for a reason will. Practice a life of tolerance whereby you know that everything will fall into its place at the most convenient time.When one is worried,you keep yourself out of many things that could have brought you happiness.

Embrace your unique talents and qualities

There is nothing as powerful as uniqueness.Every human being is unique and that what makes us all powerful.Here,you major task is to identify the real you and what you can do best.Your unique abilities will create an impact and a reason for existence.Also,the fact that you do not behave like the people in your surroundings should not worry you,the difference is acceptable and makes life so beautiful.

Believe in your path

There will always be obstacles towards every achievement.Dont allow these obstacles to discourage you from sticking to the path you have decided to follow.Believing in yourself and in your decisions will help you succeed.Follow your heart desires,stay positive and move forward.

Take time

Life is neither a race nor a contest.It doesn’t have an accomplishing deadline.Never feel as if you are in a competition with others.You should be happy and contented that you are,exactly where you are and don’t allow anybody to change this mentality.Everyone grows with their own pace.Be the driver of your life and move at a pace that you can control and the end result will be amazing.

Surround yourself with positivity

Positivity is the key.always avoid people or situations that make you feel lesser than you actually are.Limit the time spent with people who ridicule you as these people will pull you towards dark moments.Choose to be around positive influence.People who make you feel good about yourself and people who help you appreciate what life bring.It is advisable to make a list of inspiring quotes and placing it in a place that you frequently visit or use such your dressing table.Here you can always have a glance of the positivity of life as you go by your daily activities and this will definitely uplift your spirit.The important thing for you to know is  that you are unique,you are worthy and you have a great purpose here on earth.

Characteristics of a self realized person

  • Self realized people know that they are human and not perfect.They are aware that every other day is a learning day and are open to growth.A self actualizing though comfortable with himself never stops striving.

  • By being self realized has great perception of reality and is comfortable with its relations.This person can accept the highs and the lows and is able to differentiate.

  • This person appreciates nature,others and himself too.

  • This person is natural and true to himself.He does what feels good and real to him simply because he doesnot live a lie. His aim is not to hurt others but respect what he values.

  • He is a problem solver.A self realized person focuses on the problems affecting the entire environment and is willing to put effort in solving them.

  • There is need for detachment or privacy.A self actualized person has an urge to be all by himself whereby he can enjoy quiet reflection with no need of people around him.Incase there are few people with him,they don’t have to be necessarily talking but their presence is enough.

  • Independence,he can make his own uninfluenced decisions because he believes in himself and is not easily swayed by other people’s opinions.

  • The aspect of appreciation thrives in this person.He appreciates simple things that life offers.To them sunrise is amazing.He can play the games he played as a kid and still enjoy them.It is all based on the feeling that comes from within.

  • They appreciate togetherness and value people around them.

  • Interpersonal relations.A self realized person has deeper and strong interpersonal relations  more than other adults.Normally,they have fewer friends but they have created strong bonds that are meaningful with these friends.

  • These people believe in equality among human beings.They believe that every human being has a right to air their opinions,everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.

  • A self actualized person understands the difference between good and evil and never uses  them in a way that may cause pain to other people.

  • They have an unhostile sense of humor.They enjoy humor and love to joking though not at the expense of others.Generally,they are good natured though can switch to being serious.

  •  Self realized people are very creative.Creativity can be expressed in different kinds of dimensions like writing,painting,playing.      Their kind of creativity is beyond average.

  • They are independent decision makers and not highly influenced by culture.They think under their own influence and the decisions they make that are considered the best.

With the above characteristics,you are able to tell how close or far you are from being a self realized being so that you can improve it with time.You live the real you without struggling with a life that doesn’t belong to you.You are able to realize great things that you have that otherwise you would have never realized.You are able to understand the science of God. A self-realized soul is one that is not illusioned by a false body identification with their true self.This person know that he is not this body but a part of the supreme personality.Due to this,he is neither joyful in getting something nor does he complain if he loses something related to his body.This person understands that he is not the body but the spirit soul. Mostly we have  the misconception that self is the body and therefore strive so much to fulfill our bodies. This is influenced by the misconception that if our senses are happy,then we are contented.We should know that this body belongs to the Most High.We should use our bodies for the  service of Most High.Therefore we should take care of our bodies,maintain them,clean them and also provide the necessities  such as food.

You might find yourself trying to satisfy our body senses by getting nice things such as nice food and clothes,this is a sign of not being self realized.Human life is not based on sleeping,mating and eating.There is more in life than this.We should live in a simple manner and spend our energy and time advancing our spirituality which is a special characteristic of human life.We have the ability of questioning our purpose of living and also discover the answers.

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#07:49
This is the lesson which has to be taught at schools and families every day!